The wife's/mother's perspective

I'm so sick and tired of the fighting, between my son and husband. The fights are getting bigger and bigger, and worse and worse for everytime. I can see it from both sides, but I just want to sit on the fence on this one. If I say anything, I have to choose sides, and then I will lose one of them. I notice that Ali's behavior is getting weird, and so are Parvez's, they don't talk to each other anymore, not even when we eat dinner. I miss our family. Ali's teatcher is saying his is falling out of school, and that worries me. I dont know what to do anymore…